Tag: selflove

LONELINESS

Your feeling of loneliness may not come from your surrounding but the surrounding can help you feel less alone.

Be a FRIEND TO LIFE, a friend for life should not be the aim.

Act as an example, be kind in your own kind of way.

If there are reasons to die there are reasons to live.

Let not reason be your ONLY ally.

Reason shies away from wonderful things it cannot see eye to eye.

Believe in yourself is EASY TO SAY than TO FOLLOW.

How does one believe in Himself or Herself?

One should have courage to carry him or her.

The courage itself is carried to him or her by the surrounding.

Be kind to your surrounding one day you are the helper, the other day you are to be helped.

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CARTOON BLOG DAY 41: Is self love overrated?

Dramatic lighting : Me interrogating people who like their own posts on social media.

I have  a theory that hatred towards others is the result of a projection we make of ourselves onto others, when these projections represent what we consider positive sides of ourselves we like that person and if these projections represent what we consider negative sides of ourselves we hate that person. 

So people who actually hate other people hate a part of who they are inside. 

I have heard of self love a lot of times. When someone says that they are not attractive their best friend (to console him/her) tells that person, “you need to like yourself otherwise how would others like you?” 

But love doesn’t make you a better person. self awareness does. So try to understand yourself and try to improve yourself on a day to day basis. You can admire other people, you can even have mentors, but don’t compare yourself to others (which we naturally do). Just try to be the best version of yourself you can be and don’t be afraid to talk about it. Talk with your friends but also talk with strangers because they will be honest and won’t be afraid to offend you. 

Don’t just love yourself, find a good reason to love yourself. 

Bonne journée.