Life is short. Viruses help you realize what’s important. Also I can say this because I am single… Maybe.
Love and marriage
Cartoon blog day 20: Freedom and relationship
On a positive note before I take your morale down with me talking to you about my relationship to relationships, I enjoyed VENOM and I made a video about it on my Youtube channel MOVIE MESSENGER: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KmcRNqAscB4
I don’t have enough distance from my own life to assess whether I am stuck on a loop of my own self persuasion. I seem to give my self excuses for not being in a relationship going so far as questioning the purpose of a relationship.
Then I catch myself doing what I criticize about most people who are in a relationship. I said in one of my previous post: I feel like people see relationships as a means to an end, not an end in itself. So by questioning the purpose of a relationship I am making the same mistake.
OK then I can be in a relationship as long as I cherish the relationship and its intrinsic value. But I am at a moment in my life where I don’t see what another person (woman) can bring to my life. Of course, other than sex.
But if I engage in a relationship with only sex in mind, it’s not fair for the girl. Because everyone has expectations in relationships.
Yes but how I can find a girl if I don’t try?
I lost the motivation to try for a long time, I don’t know if it’s because creating art has given me enough fulfillment or because I haven’t met an interesting girl who was interested in me for who I was, maybe both.
Cartoon blog day 15: Projections vs reality
I am not going to argue about the existence nor the definition of LOVE, at least not yet. But I do want to talk about our mental projections onto people.
When I look back on my relationships I’ve had with women, I realize what most men wouldn’t admit or maybe didn’t give any thought to:
The women I have been more attached to emotionally reminded me in some way of my mother.
There, now that I’ve admitted that let’s hope that you’ll feel more comfortable with me from now on.
We do put on a mask when go out, when we are out of our comfort zone. The same way you not only make assumptions about the people you encounter, you also assume their impression of you.
To finish today’s ramble, for those who want to engage in a relationship with that woman just based on her sexy looks just keep this in mind. JUST BECAUSE SHE IS SEXY IT DOESN’T MEAN SHE IS GOOD IN BED.
What? Too soon?